Psychologist Debunks Romantic Love Myth: Persistence Doesn't Guarantee Happiness

In a recent video shared by the Spanish newspaper 20 Minutos, psychologist Silvia Congost addresses the common misconception surrounding romantic love. Congost challenges the idea that persistent effort alone is enough to create a successful relationship, stating, "The experience shows us that's not always the case." She uses a hypothetical scenario of a person continuing to pursue a romantic interest who has clearly expressed a lack of desire for a serious relationship. Congost advises that while it's acceptable to continue seeing someone, it's crucial to avoid physical intimacy if there's no mutual desire for a deeper connection. This is to avoid unnecessary suffering. The video highlights the importance of self-awareness and prioritizing one's emotional well-being in romantic relationships. Congost's message encourages healthier relationship choices, emphasizing that true love is a mutual commitment, not simply a result of persistence.