Three Simple Tips to Transform Your Parenting Style

Parenting Hacks from a Behavior Analyst: Three Simple Tips for Positive Change In today's fast-paced world, parents constantly seek effective strategies to navigate the challenges of raising children. A recent TikTok video by Board Certified Behavior Analyst Amanda (@bcba_amanda) offers three practical tips for improving parenting styles, garnering significant attention online. Amanda's first tip emphasizes the importance of noticing and acknowledging children's positive behaviors. "Notice your child for all the amazing things they do throughout their day," she advises, suggesting simple positive reinforcement like high-fives or thumbs-up. This approach shifts the focus from negative behaviors to positive ones. Her second tip highlights the power of modeling desired behaviors. "Show your children what you want from them," she explains, using the example of cleaning up a coffee spill to demonstrate resilience and problem-solving. This approach teaches children by example rather than solely through instruction. Finally, Amanda advocates for using 'to-do' language instead of simply saying 'no'. She states, "Instead of just blindly disciplining your children...try to use 'to-do' language to teach your kids what to do." This promotes positive guidance and teaches children alternative behaviors. Amanda's video has resonated with many parents, demonstrating the need for simple yet effective parenting techniques. Her expertise as a BCBA lends credibility to her advice, making it a valuable resource for parents seeking positive change in their parenting approaches.