Italian Journalist Sparks Debate Over Wedding Gift Etiquette and Bank Transfers

Rome, Italy – A recent viral video by Italian journalist Biagio D'anelli has ignited a debate on the evolving customs of wedding gifts, specifically the increasing expectation for guests to provide monetary contributions via bank transfers. D'anelli, known for his direct commentary, expressed significant frustration with what he perceives as a shift from traditional celebrations to financially driven events. In the video, D'anelli passionately states, "Enough! Enough with receiving invitations and random weddings with attached IBANs that keep arriving." He questions whether a wedding should be a "tender, sweet family celebration to share with friends and dearest relatives" or a "sad obligation" focused on financial transactions. He advocates for simpler celebrations, suggesting that a cake and a glass of prosecco should suffice, rather than elaborate affairs that guests are then expected to subsidize. "I don't want to make the bank transfer!" he declared, reflecting a sentiment shared by many who feel pressured by the financial demands of modern weddings. D'anelli also humorously, yet pointedly, remarked on the short duration of many marriages, noting that "99% of couples marry in June and separate in November," questioning the rationale of making significant financial contributions for such short-lived unions. The video has sparked widespread discussion online, highlighting the ongoing conversation about wedding etiquette and the balance between tradition and contemporary expectations.