Understanding the Lasting Impact of Narcissistic Parenting on Emotional Well-being

A recent video by therapist CarlyB Therapist, an inner child healing specialist, sheds light on the profound emotional damage caused by narcissistic mothers. The video outlines ten key behaviors that can significantly impact a child's developing sense of self and emotional stability. According to the therapist, narcissistic mothers often make everything about themselves, even their child's emotions, effectively invalidating their feelings. They may use guilt as a tool for manipulation and control, leading children to prioritize the mother's needs over their own. Another common behavior highlighted is competition, where the mother feels threatened by her child's success or appearance rather than offering support. Furthermore, the therapist notes that narcissistic mothers rarely apologize, even when clearly in the wrong, often gaslighting their children into doubting their own perceptions. They may parentify their children, relying on them for emotional support, and introduce chaos into their lives through unstable relationships, leaving children craving a stability that never materializes. Finally, such mothers tend to withhold love, making affection conditional on achievements, thereby breaking the child's innate sense of self and worth. The therapist emphasizes that experiencing even one of these behaviors can leave a child's inner self carrying a significant emotional burden. She concludes by encouraging individuals who resonate with these experiences to engage in inner child healing work, starting with acknowledging their past and seeking resources for self-awareness and self-compassion.

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Therapist reveals signs that you may have been raised by a narcissist

Taking to TikTok , complex trauma survivor and inner child healing specialist Carly Boyle, who is UK based, shared past behaviours to reflect on.