
Mom points out the unspoken, 'unfair' part of having kids who travel for sports
Parents whose children participate in elite travel ball leagues can spend up to $12,000 annually on fees, equipment, hotel rooms and gas.
A recent online discussion sparked by a social media personality has reignited the debate surrounding playing time in youth "travel ball" and "club ball" sports. The individual, a mother, posited that if parents are making substantial financial contributions and traveling for their children to participate in these leagues, then all enrolled children should be guaranteed playing time. "If you're paying to be there, and it's not like high school sports, I think everyone should have the opportunity to play," she stated in her video. She highlighted the significant costs involved, including league fees and travel expenses for hotels, questioning the fairness when a child might only play "a minute or two the whole weekend." This perspective contrasts sharply with traditional competitive sports models, such as high school or collegiate athletics, where playing time is typically earned based on skill and performance. The woman suggested that paid youth leagues, unlike school sports, should prioritize development and learning for all participants. The video quickly garnered thousands of comments, revealing a divided public. Many commenters argued that "travel ball" is inherently competitive and performance-based, not developmental, and that playing time must be earned. "Travel ball is about winning. Plain and simple. You want to play, sign up for little league," one user commented. Another added, "Travel ball isn't supposed to be developmental, it's supposed to be highly competitive." Conversely, some agreed with the original poster, emphasizing the financial burden on parents and the importance of participation for all children, especially in paid programs.
Parents whose children participate in elite travel ball leagues can spend up to $12,000 annually on fees, equipment, hotel rooms and gas.