The 'Older Sister Syndrome': A Viral Story Unpacks the Hidden Burdens on Eldest Children

A recent viral video by TikTok user @ememillczi has sparked a significant discussion about the 'older sister syndrome' and the unexpected burdens placed on eldest children. In her video, the creator shares her personal story of growing up with a younger sister 14 years her junior. She recounts how, as a teenager, she was expected to take on extensive caregiving duties, including changing diapers and going for walks, immediately after her sister's birth. She also described being tasked with household chores and errands, sometimes missing school, while her mother, who did not work, benefited from her assistance. The creator expressed her frustration, stating she felt her parents presented her sister as an 'unpleasant duty' rather than a joyful addition to the family. This experience, she explains, made her understand why many millennials are hesitant to have children, as they may have experienced similar pressures or witnessed such dynamics within their own families. The video's comment section is filled with users sharing similar stories, highlighting the widespread nature of this issue and the emotional toll it can take on older siblings.

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