The Unexpected Challenge of Healthy Love After Trauma

A recent video shared by content creator Eve & Olive, known as @eve_7721, highlights the often-unseen struggles of individuals entering healthy relationships after experiencing past trauma. In the black and white footage, the creator candidly discusses her personal journey, expressing profound surprise at being treated with genuine kindness and respect. 'Nobody told me that when you actually get into a healthy relationship and you have past relationship trauma, that it genuinely takes a while to get used to,' she shares, emphasizing the emotional adjustment required. She further explains the daily effort needed to internalize that she deserves such positive treatment, adding, 'I have to remind myself every single day that like, this is what I deserve, this is what I’ve always deserved.' The video also subtly acknowledges the patience of her current partner, offering a glimpse into the complex process of healing and adapting to a supportive environment.