Viral Princeton Speech: How Perception Shapes Your Identity

Princeton Commencement Speech Highlights Power of Perception Princeton, NJ – May 28, 2025 – A short video clip from Jay Shetty's recent commencement speech at Princeton University has gone viral, focusing on the profound impact of perception on self-identity. Shetty, a well-known motivational speaker and author, used the quote by Charles Horton Cooley to illustrate how our self-image is often a reflection of what we believe others think of us. "I am not what I think I am; I am not what you think I am; I am what I think you think I am," Shetty stated, emphasizing the cyclical nature of self-perception. He further explained how this perception can significantly influence our feelings and actions. The video, though brief, has resonated with many, leading to widespread discussion about self-esteem and social perception. The full speech is available on YouTube. The unexpected popularity of this short excerpt underscores the enduring relevance of Cooley's insightful observation and the ongoing need for self-awareness in navigating social interactions and building a positive self-image.