The Silent Struggle: A Mother's Nighttime Thoughts Reveal the Unseen Burden of Parenting

The Mental Load of Motherhood: A Nighttime Perspective A Polish mother's recent TikTok video has highlighted the often-unseen mental burden shouldered by mothers. The video, uploaded on May 31st, 2025, shows Kaska, a mother of two, candidly discussing her inability to sleep due to the constant stream of thoughts and anxieties about the next day. "Noc. Dziecko śpi. Ja też powinnam. Ale mózg mówi: „Siadaj, mamy sprawy do przemyślenia,” she shares, translating to "Night. The child is sleeping. I should too. But my brain says: 'Sit down, we have things to think about.'" The video resonates with many mothers who experience similar feelings. It showcases the constant mental planning and problem-solving mothers undertake, from checking emails to anticipating their children's needs. The video's success, with 149 views within hours of posting, suggests a widespread relatability to the topic. While the video is personal, it sparks a conversation about the often-overlooked challenges of motherhood and the need for greater support for mothers' mental well-being. This quiet struggle is a shared experience for many, and Kaska's video brings it into the light.