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Psychologist Advises Parents: Five Topics to Avoid Discussing with Children for Healthy Development
A recent online video featuring a practicing psychologist, Lyudmila Potapenko, has garnered significant attention for its advice on parenting. In the video, Potapenko outlines five specific topics that parents should refrain from discussing with their children to safeguard their psychological health. The psychologist emphasizes that a child's psyche may not be able to handle such discussions, potentially leading to the formation of incorrect attitudes. Potapenko's first point addresses financial difficulties, stating that children require stability and support, not the fear of "how we will live next." She advises against burdening children with adult financial anxieties. Secondly, she highlights the importance of keeping children away from the details of family conflicts, stressing that a child's world should be safe and non-confrontational. Personal anxieties of the parent constitute the third topic to avoid. Potapenko suggests that children should be allowed to be children, not treated as a parent's personal psychotherapist. The fourth point warns against negative judgments about relatives, as this can confuse a child about "who and how to love." Finally, criticizing the other parent is strongly discouraged, as it undermines trust in both parents. The video aims to provide practical guidance for parents seeking to foster a healthy emotional environment for their children.
