Survivor Speaks Out: Why Victim Blaming Silences Abuse Survivors

A recent video by content creator Lindsey Hull has sparked widespread discussion on the critical issue of victim blaming, following a news report concerning Boston University Women's Soccer alumni. The report detailed a letter of support for former head coach Nancy Feldman, who was accused of sexual harassment by Alex Cooper in a Hulu docuseries. Hull, in her video titled 'Teaching You What Your Parents Didn't', shared her personal journey as a survivor of sexual, physical, emotional, mental, and verbal abuse throughout her childhood. She revealed that her abusers included a sports medicine doctor and coaches, highlighting the profound impact such experiences have on individuals. In a powerful address, Hull asserted, "Just because the abuse didn't happen to you, doesn't mean it didn't happen to somebody else." She passionately argued against the practice of victim blaming, stating that it is the exact reason why many survivors are hesitant to speak about their experiences. Hull emphasized the privilege of not having faced such trauma and called for greater empathy and self-awareness from those who dismiss or criticize victims. Her message resonated with many, underscoring the ongoing need for societal understanding and support for survivors of abuse.