Generational Divide: Why Some Grandparents Say They Won't Raise Their Grandkids

Generational Divide: Understanding the "We Aren't Raising Your Grandkids" Phrase. A recent video by Phyllis (@motherphyllis) on social media has sparked a conversation about generational differences in parenting and grandparenting. The video centers around a question: Where did the phrase "We raised our kids, we aren't raising yours" originate? Phyllis, a millennial mother, expresses her surprise at encountering this phrase, suggesting it's not commonly used among her generation. "I really want to know why they think that being with their grandkids, or hanging out with them, is raising them," she states in the video. The video suggests a potential fear among some grandparents of being forced to raise their grandchildren. The post has garnered significant attention, with over 5000 views and numerous comments. This highlights a potential generational conflict and raises questions about changing family dynamics and the roles of grandparents in modern society. Further research could explore the historical context of this phrase, examining how parenting styles and family structures have evolved across generations. Understanding the perspectives of both parents and grandparents is crucial to bridging this generational gap and fostering stronger family relationships.