Do Involved Grandparents Enjoy Their Grandkids More?

Grandparents' Involvement with Grandchildren: A Reflection of Past Parenting Experiences? A recent TikTok video by Phyllis (@motherphyllis) has sparked conversation about the connection between grandparents' engagement with their grandchildren and their own past parenting experiences. Phyllis observes that highly involved grandparents often enjoyed raising their children, while those who are less present may have had different experiences. "You can tell those grandparents who are uninvolved and not around," she notes, "they act like, 'I raised my kids, I'm not going to be around my adult kids or my grandkids.'" The video, while anecdotal, highlights a common observation. Experts suggest that the bond between grandparents and grandchildren can be complex and influenced by many factors, including the grandparents' own upbringing, their relationship with their children, and their personality. The video serves as a reminder to appreciate the diverse ways families interact and connect across generations.