
Grandparents' Evolving Roles: Quality Time vs. Hands-On Help
Grandparents' Roles Shift: From Hands-On Help to Quality Time? Across generations, the role of grandparents in raising children is changing. While previous generations often shared the responsibility of childcare, the modern approach often emphasizes quality time over full-time involvement. This shift is reflected in the experiences of many families, as seen in a recent video by Phyllis (@motherphyllis) on social media. Phyllis humorously notes the contrast between the past, where grandparents were often deeply involved in raising their grandchildren, and the current emphasis on 'quality time.' She questions what constitutes 'raising' a child, highlighting the significant investment of time and effort still required even in a limited role. 'I really wonder sometimes what's the definition of raising a kid,' she reflects in the video. 'Because the last time that I checked, it was housing them, feeding them, clothing them, taking care of them, majority of their life.' This observation highlights the ongoing debate about the evolving roles and responsibilities within families. The changing dynamics underscore the importance of open communication and shared understanding between parents and grandparents to ensure the well-being of children.