Love Shouldn't Mean Losing Yourself: Expert's Advice on Healthy Relationships

Love and Identity: Finding Balance in Relationships Nigeria-based relationship expert, Okoro Blessing Nkiruka, known as officialblessingceo, recently shared her views on healthy relationships in a short video. She stresses the importance of maintaining personal identity and common sense within a relationship, warning against becoming overly dependent or losing oneself in the process. Nkiruka's video uses the metaphor of 'loving from afar' to illustrate her point. She explains, "Just because I'm in love with you, doesn't mean I'm your captive. Don't you ever think that I'm in bondage just because I love you." She emphasizes that love is a decision, requiring intention and effort but should never come at the cost of personal identity. Her advice resonates with many who struggle to balance personal growth with romantic relationships. The video's popularity, with over 2000 views in a short time, indicates a strong interest in this topic. Nkiruka's established reputation as a relationship expert adds credibility to her message, making her insights valuable for a wider audience.