Three Red Flags: When Your Relationship Might Be Over

In a recent online discussion, relationship expert Paige Moyce highlighted three critical indicators that a romantic relationship may be nearing its end. According to Moyce, these signs suggest a fundamental breakdown that is often difficult to reverse without significant mutual effort. The first sign, as explained by Moyce, is when "communication is designed to avoid arguments, conflict, silent treatment, blow-ups, big reactions." She states that if individuals find themselves "self-editing and auditing" their words to keep their partner happy, it's a recipe for disaster. This avoidance, she notes, leads to burying feelings and needs, driven by a fear of the partner's reaction or departure. Secondly, Moyce poses a poignant question: "If you could leave tomorrow, you would?" She elaborates that if, hypothetically, there were no consequences or worries about anyone, and one could leave and be happy, a "yes" answer indicates deep exhaustion. This often means one partner has attempted to fix issues countless times without success. Finally, Moyce points to the absence of "warmth in the relationship anymore." This extends beyond physical intimacy to emotional connection, trust, and vulnerability. She emphasizes that reigniting this warmth requires "two" people, and if one partner is not "leaning in" or making an effort, the relationship lacks a healthy foundation and is unsustainable. Moyce's insights underscore the importance of honest self-assessment and mutual commitment in maintaining healthy relationships.

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one month ago

Expert reveals the sign your relationship is heading for disaster

UK-based relationship and break-up coach Paige Moyce revealed three signs your partnership is over in a video on TikTok.