Unpacking 'Bare Minimum' in Relationships: What Do Kenyans Really Expect?

Nairobi, Kenya - A recent street interview by Pulse Kenya has sparked conversations about the evolving expectations within relationships, specifically focusing on the concept of "bare minimum treatment." The video, which features various individuals sharing their perspectives, highlights a diverse range of opinions on what constitutes essential effort and commitment from a partner. One interviewee emphasized that "everyone is busy," but people make time for what they value. He stated, "People make time for the things that they like and the things that they enjoy and the people that they like and enjoy." This sentiment suggests that a lack of time is often a reflection of a lack of priority. Another participant defined bare minimum treatment as the fundamental expectation that one should not have to "force or fight someone to give you love or treat you well or give you what you deserve." This perspective underscores the idea that basic respect and affection should be freely given, not extracted. An interviewee further elaborated on commitment, stating that in a genuine relationship—not a "situationship"—one should be "100% ready to commit." He added, "I'm in, I know there are better people out there, I know there's bigger out there, but I want you." This highlights the importance of intentional and unwavering dedication, acknowledging external options but choosing to invest fully in the chosen partner. The video captures a snapshot of contemporary views on relationship dynamics, inviting viewers to reflect on their own expectations and contributions.