NYC Dating Woes: Why Some Women Feel Overlooked

Dating in the City: A Relatable Story of Frustration and Disappointment New York City, May 25, 2025 - A recent TikTok video by Rachel Cuello (@rachelcuello) has highlighted the common frustrations faced by young women in the dating world. The video centers on the experiences of Cuello's friend, a 27-year-old Brazilian woman living in NYC, who feels consistently overlooked in her search for a serious relationship. "She's gorgeous, sweet, and works out a lot," says Cuello in the video, describing her friend. "But she feels like guys just don't take her seriously for some reason." The video details how her friend has had numerous disappointing experiences, with men often treating her casually despite her clearly stating her desire for something more committed. Cuello further illustrates this point with an example: "She'll offer to pay or split the bill, just to see how they react. And some guys will just let her pay!" she states. The video resonates with many viewers, reflecting a shared experience of frustration and disappointment in the dating world. The anecdote serves as a reminder of the ongoing challenges women face in navigating dating dynamics and the importance of respectful communication and behavior.