13th Anniversary: The Unexpected Wisdom of 'Middle School' Marriage

13th Anniversary Reflections: The 'Middle School' Years of Marriage May 25, 2025 – In a recent video posted online, Some Guy Avery, a social media personality known for sharing insights on marriage, reflected on his 13th wedding anniversary. Avery used a unique analogy, comparing the challenges and growth of a long-term relationship to the awkward yet formative years of adolescence. "Oh my, we are fresh teenagers at 13," Avery quipped in his video, referencing a comment on his post. He went on to describe the 'middle school' phase of marriage as a time of testing boundaries and navigating the complexities of a long-term commitment. He noted the uncertainties and awkwardness that can arise, stating, "Things are awkward. Do I like this? Do I like that? Do I like you? I don't know!" Avery's video resonated with many viewers, highlighting the universality of these experiences in long-term relationships. His advice to use comparisons with other couples constructively, to build rather than diminish the relationship, provides a positive and insightful takeaway. The video serves as a reminder that even long-lasting relationships require constant work, understanding, and growth. It's a testament to the enduring power of love and commitment.