Catalan Dating Debate: To Sleep or Not to Sleep on the First Date?

In a recent video, two young women in Spain sparked a conversation about dating norms and expectations. The discussion, conducted in Catalan, centers on the common advice to avoid sex on a first date. One woman advocates for prioritizing personal desire over rigid rules, stating, "Soc molt fan de fer el que et doni la gana." (I'm a big fan of doing what you feel like doing.) The other woman acknowledges the pressure to conform, highlighting the potential for this advice to be misinterpreted as a judgment on one's character. The conversation highlights the cultural nuances surrounding intimacy and consent in modern dating. While the video primarily targets a Catalan-speaking audience, its themes resonate with broader discussions about dating culture and the complexities of personal choice.