Rejecting Others or Ourselves? Psychologist Explores Self-Acceptance

In a short video posted June 2nd, 2025, psychologist Victor Gusar discussed the common tendency to reject others instead of acknowledging underlying emotional connections. Gusar illustrated this with examples of people rejecting those who are "too open" or "too free," suggesting that this rejection stems from personal insecurities and a lack of self-acceptance. 'People find it easier to reject than to admit that something about them is appealing,' said Gusar. He urged viewers to focus on self-acceptance rather than external validation. Gusar's message resonates with a growing interest in mental health and self-care, suggesting the importance of self-compassion in building healthy relationships.