The Psychology of 'I Don't Need Anyone': Childhood Trauma and Adult Relationships

Understanding the 'I Don't Need Anyone' Mentality: A Psychological Perspective In a recent social media video, a tarot reader based in Ukraine discussed the psychological roots of the 'I'm alone' or 'I don't need anyone' mindset. The video, which has garnered over 3000 views, suggests a connection between this mindset and childhood experiences with infantilizing parents. The author claims that children raised in environments where parental roles were blurred often lack the emotional support and resources to develop healthy coping mechanisms. "They had infantilized parents, most often mothers, where roles were switched — either mother-friend or mother-child," the author states in the video. This lack of clear boundaries and consistent support, she argues, can lead to adults who struggle with emotional intimacy and self-reliance. The video also highlights the impact of betrayal in close relationships. The author suggests that experiencing significant betrayals, especially early in life, can reinforce feelings of isolation and self-sufficiency. While the video's claims are not backed by rigorous scientific research, it sparks a discussion on the complex interplay between childhood experiences and adult emotional patterns. Further research is needed to validate these claims, but the video serves as a starting point for understanding this common psychological phenomenon.