Controversial Parenting Tip Goes Viral: Are Parents the Problem?

Parenting Advice Sparks Debate: BCBA's Direct Approach Divides Opinions May 19, 2025 - A short video by Board Certified Behavior Analyst Amanda has ignited a conversation among parents. In the video, filmed in her car, Amanda asserts that often, the issue isn't the child's behavior, but the parents' resistance to change. "Parents, when you think your child needs to change but you're not willing to change, you are the problem," she states directly. This blunt approach has resonated with some, who appreciate the straightforward advice, while others find it overly simplistic and potentially insensitive. Amanda's message focuses on the importance of open-mindedness and adapting parenting strategies to create a more harmonious home environment. While she doesn't offer specific examples in the brief video, her point highlights the crucial role of parental self-reflection in child development. The video's concise nature and direct message have made it a topic of discussion across various parenting forums and social media platforms.