
American woman living in UK reveals what Brits are 'ignorant' about
Ellen Ferrara Bencard, who originally hails from the US, shared her observations of British culture on her TikTok channel, racking up 50,000 views on…
Cultural Crossroads: American Expat Unpacks Surprising Realities of Life in EnglandAn American woman, residing in England for 25 years, has revealed three significant cultural differences that initially shocked her upon moving, despite her prior visits. Her observations shed light on distinct societal norms concerning national pride, historical awareness, and attitudes towards personal achievement.The first point of cultural divergence, according to the expat, is the English approach to patriotism. Unlike the overt displays often seen in the United States, public expressions of national pride in England are generally considered "not cool" or "a bit tacky," and have, in recent years, become unfortunately associated with racism. Exceptions exist, such as international sporting events, royal jubilees, or the Last Night of the Proms concert, where flag-waving and patriotic singing are embraced.Secondly, the American noted a surprising lack of historical knowledge among the average English person, especially given the extensive focus on English history in American education. She recounted an experience on Guy Fawkes Night where she, an American, ended up educating her English-born colleagues on the holiday's origins. While acknowledging a "robust and large minority of history nerds" who engage with historical podcasts and reenactments, she observed that most English people "probably never sets foot in historic properties or their local museums."Finally, the expat highlighted the prevalence of "Tall Poppy Syndrome" in England, referring to the tendency to cut down or criticize individuals who are too successful or boastful. She explained that while success is acceptable, being too vocal about it is not. This contrasts sharply with American culture, where individuals are encouraged to celebrate their achievements. To "get on" in England and be successful, she advises mastering humility and self-deprecating humor to avoid being "one of the cut poppies." These insights offer a compelling look into the subtle yet profound cultural shifts experienced by those who relocate between the two nations.
Ellen Ferrara Bencard, who originally hails from the US, shared her observations of British culture on her TikTok channel, racking up 50,000 views on…