White Karen Retreat Director Tries to Quiet Black Maryland Woman During Course,…
A black woman went to a Maryland wellness retreat and she didn't feel welcomed by the host, a white Karen.
Maryland Wellness Retreat Faces Scrutiny After Participant Alleges Racial Microaggressions. A recent wellness retreat in Maryland has drawn criticism after a participant, known online as "YourNeighborhoodShaman," shared her experience of racial microaggressions, leading her to leave the event prematurely. The incident has reignited discussions about inclusivity and safety within the wellness industry. The participant, who identifies as mixed-race, recounted that the retreat, led by a white woman, began positively with activities like grounding and Qigong. However, the atmosphere shifted during a horse observation session. "YourNeighborhoodShaman" stated that after several white attendees had spoken, she was explicitly told to remain silent when she attempted to ask a question. She described feeling "silenced" and "unheard." The situation escalated when the retreat leader later misidentified "YourNeighborhoodShaman," mistakenly calling her by the name of the only other person of color present. "That doesn't make me feel comfortable here," she stated, explaining that such incidents, though seemingly minor, contribute to a feeling of being unsafe and unacknowledged. She also mentioned having physically moved away from the leader on multiple occasions after being touched without consent, further contributing to her discomfort. Her decision to leave the retreat early was met with understanding from one of her white clients who accompanied her. "She made you feel unsafe," the client reportedly observed. This validation underscored "YourNeighborhoodShaman's" belief that the wellness industry often fails to cater to the needs of people of color. In the wake of this experience, "YourNeighborhoodShaman" expressed a strong resolve to create her own inclusive wellness center, the "Lone Wolf District," aimed at providing a safe and nurturing environment for individuals who often feel marginalized in existing spaces. "It is so hard being a woman of color in wellness spaces," she remarked, emphasizing the need for leaders who understand and respect diverse experiences. The incident highlights the ongoing need for greater awareness and systemic change to ensure equitable and truly welcoming environments for all participants in the wellness sector.
A black woman went to a Maryland wellness retreat and she didn't feel welcomed by the host, a white Karen.
